Fetish Fun All Saturday Night! Who is coming?

 As many of you know I’m having a Golden Shower Party and Slave Competition this Saturday. Slaves will compete for a chance to be crowned Queen/King of the Golden Showers.

The winner will receive a super secret grand prize worth thousands. Be sure to bring eye gear and a change of clothes if necessary. Inform me of any health concerns.

Since we are lucky enough to have such a small intimate party we have decided to all attend the Push Fetish Event in Durham after the party. Please be sure to check their pricing and guidelines for attire. You can change after our party and shower if competing.

I will not tolerate any rude behavior. You will he asked to leave immediately with no refund. This will be a fun, safe atmosphere to party. To purchase tickets to my event click link below.


https://www.eventbrite.com/e/at-mistress-lydia-douleurs-house-it-rains-gold-this-saturday-at-8pm-tickets-55080152218#tickets

Here are the details to the Push Fetish Event! https://www.facebook.com/events/1913853875316898/?ti=ia

Learn How to Book a Session With Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Online

With Advance Notice Talk with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Online with Scheduled Time and Deposit.

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur understands not everyone can make it to the Chapel Hill area of North Carolina to see her live therefore her alternative is to schedule an online session with her.  Understand that her time is valuable and a deposit is placed to secure her time by sending a PayPal of $25 along with name, email, date/time and preferred messaging system with username.

Once this is received she will send you a confirmation email with further instructions.

Upcoming Events With Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

Check Out September's Events

If you haven’t had the opportunity to enjoy Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur on a personal level by serving her then you may want to reconsider if of course she accepts you for a session.  She enjoys many different types of play. She is never judgemental and will always listen to her clients during their first consultation. Everything that is preformed at her safe playspace is consensual between both parties. There is no sex involved in her service.  Sometimes with newbies she may give a massage to make them feel more comfortable but don’t count on it.

Mistress Lydia’s time is very precious.  If you schedule a session and cannot make it have the courtesy to call or text her right when you find out.  There is nothing worst then not knowing. Most of the time she does require a deposit to be paid before giving you her address.  Those that our leery of deposits are ridiculous.  She is a professional and if you don’t meet for a reason in which she cancels the deposit s always refunded. If you cancel it may be rescheduled with a good excuse or non-refundable for booking her time.

Events for September Include:

  1. Let it rain GOLD Party – Invite to attend this Golden Shower Event and RSVP is Required. $50 ticket per person.
  2. Getting Back into the Dating Scene September 29th with Johnathon Gray and/or Mistress Lydia (evening class or overnight weekend retreat)
  3. Sissy Night Out with Mistress Lydia and others that she deems worthy to go out to-night club with. Inquire for more information.
  4. Adopt one of Mistress Lydia’s bills to be a part of her Financial Domination Club.
  5. How to be a Dominant Woman in Life and in the Bedroom (2 nights)

Send email to lydiadouleur@gmail.com for more information.  She is very excited about the many things to come in her world. Jump on in and try to join if you dare.

If you would like to be on her mailing list with special offers then send an email to lydiadouleur@gmail.com or simply fill out the contact form.

She is very busy but always loves speaking with her fans and women of course our priority over men.

 

Mistress Lydia’s rules to go with her new bdsm playspace.

Serve a FemDomHere is my WISHLIST for Mistress Lydia’s new bdsm playspace. Some of these items are duplicates but there is a big need for multiple items of the same kind.

Many of you don’t know that I now have my own playspace and will be extremely selective on whom I schedule at my new bdsm playspace. Just because you contact me doesn’t mean that you’ll session there. I may require a deposit to avoid wasting my time. Your first inital contact will be via text than if I like where it’s going I will talk to you on the phone to confirm a day and time to schedule a session.

If you’re interested in being a full-time servant email details to lydiadouleur@gmail.com. I hate when slaves think they are easy because they are doing a chore but remember sometimes it’s emotionally draining to always have to give my attention or not. Sometimes I need time to just space out and relax my mind a bit. If you want to hang out at my playspace that is fine but remember I need my own time as well. You will have to be there for a reason.

I have a list of chores and have assigned personal slaves to complete them. There is a reward system in place for those who do well. For those who don’t, you can leave. Don’t let the door hit you in the ass. I could care less. You either follow my rules or you don’t. I am not the Domme who gives pleasurable punishments. My punishments are things you may fear or hate. After spending time with you I figure this out on my own.

Cocky bitches who have been in the lifestyle for a while will be beat down emotionallty if acting like a know it all in my space. You are not more important than anyone else unless you are a head slave or we have a special contract. Newbies, I do love you and it’s fun to see you experience your first time doing many exciting things.

Newbies always think I am going to do something without their consent and that is never the case. We talk first then explore different fetishes together to see what you may or may not like as well as your tolenerance level. I do have a background in nursing and take safety seriously. If I deem you worthy I will conduct an evaluation to see if I can use you in the future. Everything is discussed and communication is the key the entire time for your first session. Just know that I rarely accept newbies unless I feel like I will enjoy the session.

Sometimes going on field trips with my slaves is fun. Let me know if your comfortable with this. Discretion is always used. Your information will never be given to anybody unless we have some sort of blackmail contract. We go out YOU ALWAYS PAY!

I enjoy doing DoubleDomme sessions, inquire more about this. I will be conducting educational, private classes for couples and weekend parties and retreats.

If your interested in working with me then send 3 photos and a bio with experience to lydiadouleur@gmail.com. I only deal with women who are strong and really trustworthy and smart. You must be able to be creative and to think on your feet. If you’re not then don’t apply.

If you would like to set up a session with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur then text me at 919-234-7128. Feel free to use the contact form as well. Realize that I am in the RDU area of North Carolina. I do travel on occasion and take special travel request.

You must schedule time with me. I am rarely available at the drop of a hat unless your on my backup list for cancelled sessions. Make sure you are ready to schedule when contacting me.

Taking a Very Limited Few Live Sessions

For you lucky bastards who already know me then the good news is you’re in. For those still trying to schedule time then always know that the best things come to those who wait.

I will be accepting a very limited few live session beginning in July. If I can somehow squeeze you in and like you then we can have a normal schedule.

I have a playspace in Wilmington, NC and live in the Raleigh area. I must get to know you after a few sessions to come to my Raleigh location.

To all of those who have questions pertaining to my live sessions please read my ad. This will answer most of your questions. If you have more then contact me personally by text first 919-234-7128.

For my ad on Eros Guide, click here.

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur