Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Needs a Handyman

If you are able to put items together for the game room then contact me ASAP at 919-234-7128.

I’ve had a few slaves say they would help get the shit together in the game room but still haven’t.  I need someone ASAP who can use tools and put these games and tables together.  Send me an email if you’re able to at lydiadouleur@gmail.com.

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Dominates Chapel Hill Area

Schedule a session with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur by texting 919-234-7128 or via email at lydiadouleur@gmail.com. Just because you have money doesn’t mean that you will be one of the few selected slaves to session with me. #ChapelHill #FemDom #Raleigh #Durham #Cary #cbt #ballbusting #sissy #goldenshower

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Needs a Responsible House Slave

Apply Today to Become Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur House Slave Full Time

Who died and made you boss?  Mistress Lydia did! Not exactly, you will report to her each day and other visiting Dommes who stop by. Help others get settled in, organizing a calendar of events, cleaning  schedule with other slaves and whatever else Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur request of you.  You must be at her disposal.  If this is of interest to you then send 3 pictures along with a brief biography and tell her why you would make a great house slave full time.  What are your skills and how are you different fro the competition.  Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur will be scheduling interrogations with her friends to see who her best fit is.

Email this information to lydiadouleur@gmail.com with the subject line Full Time House Slave.

Learn How to Book a Session With Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Online

With Advance Notice Talk with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Online with Scheduled Time and Deposit.

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur understands not everyone can make it to the Chapel Hill area of North Carolina to see her live therefore her alternative is to schedule an online session with her.  Understand that her time is valuable and a deposit is placed to secure her time by sending a PayPal of $25 along with name, email, date/time and preferred messaging system with username.

Once this is received she will send you a confirmation email with further instructions.

January 19th at 8pm Date Change for GS Party and Slave Competition

There has been quite a few request to change the date of the event till after the holidays. I agree and have decided to change the date of this event to January 19th at 8pm.

This will indeed be the party of the century. The outcome is expected to large and many slaves are excited to participate in this live streaming event.

All guest must be 21 and over. This is an adult party. tickets must be presented at the door or no entry. Ticket sales end on January 15, 2019 or if the event is not sold out.

Tickets must be purchased in advance. The address of the party will be given on the 15th of November based on the crowd size. The event will be very luxurious and fun.

The event will be held between Raleigh and Chapel Hill area just so you have a general idea.

If you come there please do not disrespect anybody else’s fetish or what they do. You will be removed by security with no refund.

There will be a Slave Competition with prizes and a loser crowned #TheTopGSSlave. This will be a competition like no other for these watersport lovers. If you are competing email Mistress Lydia with a photo, short bio and if you are ok being filmed.

The tickets can be purchased through our secured payment gateway.

Date of Mistress Lydia’s GS Party and Competition will be January 19, 2018

Starts: 8pm 

Last until ???

Address will be given January 15th and should not be shared with anyone. You must show your purchased ticket before entering.

Limited Availability So Hurry!

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur says that men need more discipline in their lives

Men seem to forget about their role sometimes in the D/s relationship when the women is the Dominant half of the relationship.  I believe we need more strict training programs for these losers that do not abide by their Mistresses rules or demands.  Men are not entitled to anything and need to be reminded of this on occasion. No longer dealing with slaves or submissives that can’t behave or have no manners at all. My time is limited and I only deal with those I want too. Remember that you lucky little shits are spending time with me. Many other subs which they could be you for that moment when your with Mistress. Don’t take it for granted.


Mistress, should not have to ask for anything! It should be understood and common sense what she needs right now. Send a Paypal to lydiadouleur@gmail.com or via CashApp $LydiaDOuleur. I think this video that Goddess Marx and I made the other night shows where men should start out in our lives.  I have a new playspace in the Chapel Hill area and rent is due. Send Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur a thank you tribute to help her pay for her playspace.


If you would like to request a scheduled session with Mistress Lydia text me at 919-234-7128. Be prepared to make a deposit if I do not know you or have never had a session with you. The deposit can be paid via PayPal, CashApp, Bitcoins or e gift cards.


Upcoming Events With Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

Check Out September's Events

If you haven’t had the opportunity to enjoy Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur on a personal level by serving her then you may want to reconsider if of course she accepts you for a session.  She enjoys many different types of play. She is never judgemental and will always listen to her clients during their first consultation. Everything that is preformed at her safe playspace is consensual between both parties. There is no sex involved in her service.  Sometimes with newbies she may give a massage to make them feel more comfortable but don’t count on it.

Mistress Lydia’s time is very precious.  If you schedule a session and cannot make it have the courtesy to call or text her right when you find out.  There is nothing worst then not knowing. Most of the time she does require a deposit to be paid before giving you her address.  Those that our leery of deposits are ridiculous.  She is a professional and if you don’t meet for a reason in which she cancels the deposit s always refunded. If you cancel it may be rescheduled with a good excuse or non-refundable for booking her time.

Events for September Include:

  1. Let it rain GOLD Party – Invite to attend this Golden Shower Event and RSVP is Required. $50 ticket per person.
  2. Getting Back into the Dating Scene September 29th with Johnathon Gray and/or Mistress Lydia (evening class or overnight weekend retreat)
  3. Sissy Night Out with Mistress Lydia and others that she deems worthy to go out to-night club with. Inquire for more information.
  4. Adopt one of Mistress Lydia’s bills to be a part of her Financial Domination Club.
  5. How to be a Dominant Woman in Life and in the Bedroom (2 nights)

Send email to lydiadouleur@gmail.com for more information.  She is very excited about the many things to come in her world. Jump on in and try to join if you dare.

If you would like to be on her mailing list with special offers then send an email to lydiadouleur@gmail.com or simply fill out the contact form.

She is very busy but always loves speaking with her fans and women of course our priority over men.


Having a New Playspace Means Busy Doms



Let’s start off by saying that if you are somehow invited to Mistress Lydia’s new playspace through a cancellation or by other means just realize that everybody is NOT getting the opportunity to serve Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur and her friends. Consider yourself a lucky slave.

Mistress Lydia does not have time for games. Her schedule is extremely complex with not a lot of availability to new clients unless you seem interesting perhaps.  Just because you contact her does not mean that she will session with you. Always, show respect when first speaking to Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur.  She shows respect and consideration when it’s given.

In the future there will be upcoming parties if chosen this will be your chance to shine in front of other traveling or local Mistresses.  If you’re okay with being photographed or “caught on camera”then inform Mistress. If you would like to take part in one of her live streaming events coming up or evaluated for a position on her slave team then inform Mistress Lydia while scheduling your first session.

It would also be nice to possibly bring a giftcard or buy something special off of Mistress Lydia’s Amazon Wishlist.  Having a new playspace means more room for fun equipment and whatever the Mistress wants.  What women doesn’t enjoy a gift?

A rule to remember when participating in a session with Mistress Lydia is to not talk shit about other Dommes. She does not want to hear it or participate in the drama involved.  Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur supports women in the BDSM community and sex workers around the world.  If you think you have what it takes to work with Mistress Lydia then email a short bio along with 3 photos. No drug addicts and no drama. Must be able to think on your feet and be creative.

In two weeks Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur is having her first couples getaway for gay or straight couples who want to know more about BDSM and how to incorporate the lifestyle into their daily lives. Learn special techniques and safety for different fetishes you would like to engage in with your significant other.  All retreats are fun and can be a great learning experience.  To inquire about a weekend retreat with Mistress Lydia send an email to her explaining your availability and your situation.  There is a $100 deposit for all retreats per couple.

If you have any questions or comments feel free to text me at 919-234-7128 or via the contact form below.