It’s Sadistic Sissy Sunday with Mistress Lydia D’Ouler

It seems as if the daytime is my favorite part of Sunday!



#Sexy is the new quiet





I could go on forever. Good luck if you get a day appointment today. Text 919-234-7128 to begin scheduling process. Newbies be prepared to pay a $50 deposit via PayPal at this link

The remainder can be paid upon arrival. My sessions begin with a #tribute of $200 and up.

I only accept sessions I enjoy. Just cause you have money and want one means shit to me. Let’s play losers! #ChapelHill # Raleigh #Cary #Durham CBT #humiliation #ballbusting


Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Needs a Handyman

If you are able to put items together for the game room then contact me ASAP at 919-234-7128.

I’ve had a few slaves say they would help get the shit together in the game room but still haven’t.  I need someone ASAP who can use tools and put these games and tables together.  Send me an email if you’re able to at

Upcoming Events With Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

Check Out September's Events

If you haven’t had the opportunity to enjoy Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur on a personal level by serving her then you may want to reconsider if of course she accepts you for a session.  She enjoys many different types of play. She is never judgemental and will always listen to her clients during their first consultation. Everything that is preformed at her safe playspace is consensual between both parties. There is no sex involved in her service.  Sometimes with newbies she may give a massage to make them feel more comfortable but don’t count on it.

Mistress Lydia’s time is very precious.  If you schedule a session and cannot make it have the courtesy to call or text her right when you find out.  There is nothing worst then not knowing. Most of the time she does require a deposit to be paid before giving you her address.  Those that our leery of deposits are ridiculous.  She is a professional and if you don’t meet for a reason in which she cancels the deposit s always refunded. If you cancel it may be rescheduled with a good excuse or non-refundable for booking her time.

Events for September Include:

  1. Let it rain GOLD Party – Invite to attend this Golden Shower Event and RSVP is Required. $50 ticket per person.
  2. Getting Back into the Dating Scene September 29th with Johnathon Gray and/or Mistress Lydia (evening class or overnight weekend retreat)
  3. Sissy Night Out with Mistress Lydia and others that she deems worthy to go out to-night club with. Inquire for more information.
  4. Adopt one of Mistress Lydia’s bills to be a part of her Financial Domination Club.
  5. How to be a Dominant Woman in Life and in the Bedroom (2 nights)

Send email to for more information.  She is very excited about the many things to come in her world. Jump on in and try to join if you dare.

If you would like to be on her mailing list with special offers then send an email to or simply fill out the contact form.

She is very busy but always loves speaking with her fans and women of course our priority over men.


Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur always takes a good photo

Check out Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur’s more upbeat photo collection. I know you boys like to look at me. Text me at 919-234-7128 to schedule a session if you’re close to the Chapel Hill area around the UNC area. I’m also close to RTP. You must schedule time with me.

I am extremely selective about who I session with and allow into my word and personal playspace. If you’re interested in meeting for lunch to discuss an upcoming session then you can schedule a time with me via the website or text. The lunch of course is on YOU and there is a $50 consultation fee. This is just a public meeting to see if we click or if you have questions.

The Beautiful Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Photos

Observe Mistress Lydia’s Mummification Demonstration at Dominate Me 4 on August 4th.

Mistress Lydia is very excited to be preforming at “Dominate Me” the fetish event in Fayetteville and displaying  just one of many ways to do a mummification. Here are more details about the show. Look for me around 9:30pm if you go.

Mummification demonstration in Fayetteville.

More Details:

Dominate Me 4 Mechanika Post Apocolyptic

“ There will be swords, whips, and fire!!”


The year is 2087 and The Drunk Horse Pub is the last watering hole on the east coast to find debauchery, music and mayhem all in one place totally for your enjoyment.

Welcome to Mechanika!! A Post Apocolyptic BDSM event filled with fire, swords, whips and all the loudness that makes up what Dominate Me is all about.

We have 3 ultra hot BDSM demonstrations, 3 very loud and in your face live bands, 3 vendors, and a completely “open to anyone who wants” Open Play Party at the end. Also just added for the first, this event has it’s VIP Area with it’s own server. Check the pricing in the link above for availability.

Fractured Fairytales w/Tik Tok
The Deadly Sins (Fire Demo Team)
Ohno/Karnivoor (Heavy Flog/Masochistic Scene)
Mistress Lydia D – (Body Mummification)
Inviolate w/ Kadria (Sword Bellydancer/Singer)
Tabbie Athame (Gothic/Fetish Fire Hoop)

Hosted by “She-God” Lingerie/Fetish Model Ms. Allison Ronconi from Jacksonville, Florida.

Guest DJ : DJNinetails from RNT/YKW

Vendors: Fat Unicorn Creations, Brat Tamers, Make Me Naughty Paddles and Novelties

The space inside The Drunk Horse Pub features a large dancefloor, open bar, holds 250 easily with plenty of parking and overflow parking. Dungeon-like atmosphere with full PA and plenty of volume to knock you into the middle next week.

We have full Fet-Friendly nationally accredited event security staff, venue security staff, a staff EMT onsite, house tops for your enjoyment, and enough live hard hitting music that you will not forget this event. Don’t miss it!!!




Mistress Lydia’s rules to go with her new bdsm playspace.

Serve a FemDomHere is my WISHLIST for Mistress Lydia’s new bdsm playspace. Some of these items are duplicates but there is a big need for multiple items of the same kind.

Many of you don’t know that I now have my own playspace and will be extremely selective on whom I schedule at my new bdsm playspace. Just because you contact me doesn’t mean that you’ll session there. I may require a deposit to avoid wasting my time. Your first inital contact will be via text than if I like where it’s going I will talk to you on the phone to confirm a day and time to schedule a session.

If you’re interested in being a full-time servant email details to I hate when slaves think they are easy because they are doing a chore but remember sometimes it’s emotionally draining to always have to give my attention or not. Sometimes I need time to just space out and relax my mind a bit. If you want to hang out at my playspace that is fine but remember I need my own time as well. You will have to be there for a reason.

I have a list of chores and have assigned personal slaves to complete them. There is a reward system in place for those who do well. For those who don’t, you can leave. Don’t let the door hit you in the ass. I could care less. You either follow my rules or you don’t. I am not the Domme who gives pleasurable punishments. My punishments are things you may fear or hate. After spending time with you I figure this out on my own.

Cocky bitches who have been in the lifestyle for a while will be beat down emotionallty if acting like a know it all in my space. You are not more important than anyone else unless you are a head slave or we have a special contract. Newbies, I do love you and it’s fun to see you experience your first time doing many exciting things.

Newbies always think I am going to do something without their consent and that is never the case. We talk first then explore different fetishes together to see what you may or may not like as well as your tolenerance level. I do have a background in nursing and take safety seriously. If I deem you worthy I will conduct an evaluation to see if I can use you in the future. Everything is discussed and communication is the key the entire time for your first session. Just know that I rarely accept newbies unless I feel like I will enjoy the session.

Sometimes going on field trips with my slaves is fun. Let me know if your comfortable with this. Discretion is always used. Your information will never be given to anybody unless we have some sort of blackmail contract. We go out YOU ALWAYS PAY!

I enjoy doing DoubleDomme sessions, inquire more about this. I will be conducting educational, private classes for couples and weekend parties and retreats.

If your interested in working with me then send 3 photos and a bio with experience to I only deal with women who are strong and really trustworthy and smart. You must be able to be creative and to think on your feet. If you’re not then don’t apply.

If you would like to set up a session with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur then text me at 919-234-7128. Feel free to use the contact form as well. Realize that I am in the RDU area of North Carolina. I do travel on occasion and take special travel request.

You must schedule time with me. I am rarely available at the drop of a hat unless your on my backup list for cancelled sessions. Make sure you are ready to schedule when contacting me.