What are Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur’s Expectations?

When communicating with me via phone or social media always remember to use your manners. Even though I enjoy having fun and display a fun attitude online always remember that I am the one who determines if an activity or a person is enjoyable or not. Just because you may be having a blast doesn’t mean that I necessarily am. You cannot offer me something that hasn’t been offered before and has been offered to me day after day. Also, keep in the back of your pathetic mind that the other person I allowed to do whatever you offered was most likely 100 times better than you could ever be. Seriously, get over yourself boys! Everyone PAYS unless you have a ring on my finger or pay my bills.

Put your money where your mouth is. Many people I have wasted endless hours with because they talk too much, try to top from the bottom, get off on just the idea and become very chatty wanting to know details and the ones who think they are so good looking. LOL! Remember, I have others who are 100 times more than you could ever be. Get off your high horse and get the manurer off of my boot.

When requesting a custom clip or photo set always include what the deposit would be along with timeline for the finished product. I will not get all of the extra pieces in order without a deposit. This is why it is referred to as a custom clip. I do have some extreme BDSM video clips that I am not allowed to post on other websites to sell them. My videos never include those under the age of 18 or anything with animals.

I am accepting submissions for paypigs. If you’re not serious then don’t even bother. I am extremely picky about whom I call my paypig. Well, if you can’t send an initial tribute to even chat with me then we will most likely NOT work. Are you ready to be my personal piggy and receive all the benefits that my little losers have of being owned by me. Remember, many don’t cut it or have what it takes and I’ve seen this time and time again.

As many of you know I have gotten rid of about half of my clients so my energy is only given to those that respect my time. With this new change and some recent family stressors it is imperative that you always show me how much I am appreciated. Send me money or Amazon Giftcards to help with my transition recently only accepting the very best slaves possible to session with. Do what you can today and check out the different ways I accept payment. I no longer use PayPal.

GooglePay lydiadouleur@gmail.com

Venmo @Lydia-DOuleur

Cryptocurrency – Contact me for more details.

Virtual Terminal – Inquire for details.

July 2019 with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

There are many exciting ways to meet Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur this July whether it’s scheduling an online or live session. The tour planned for July 2019 has been canceled except for one destination. Inquire as to which location on the east coast that I may be popping up in soon. I do travel as needed for VIP clientele only.

PayPal is no longer a payment option for me, so as a writer and performer after many years PayPal cut me. I’m not sure which policy was broken. Was it me being a woman making money non traditionally? I currently have GooglePay lydiadouleur@gmail.com and Venmo @Lydia-DOuleur as payment methods for deposits. If need be there is a virtual terminal I use as well.

Silent Tributes Are Very Much Appreciated! Venmo @Lydia-DOuleur

I’ve had a lot of time to think since cutting half my clientele. I cut slaves that were timewasters, cheap and liars. I have zero tolerance for any bullshit. If you have not seen me then I require a deposit. You can not pay me at a later date. Imagine if you went to work and your boss said I’ll pay you sometime next month. Before a session I have prep work, sterilizing instruments, organizing and running sessions, scheduling appointments, screening clients, web work, events, podcast, marketing and my favorite, CLEAN UP! NOT! I love when people say well have the slave clean it. I shake my head and watch the pathetic assholes all of a sudden not know anything about being an adult. LMFAO!

One of the things I find so entertaining is slaves who believe they are entitled because of the way they look or maybe an executive position held. I don’t care to be perfectly honest with you. I most likely have no idea who you are in life due to my secret bubble. LOL! If you have no respect for yourself or towards me you most likely were cut from my client list. There is no entitlement. You reap what you sow. No games played here. No bullshit! No, unblock fee just when you’re blocked you will never have the honor of speaking to me again. My service is non negotiable. You can not offer me any service in lieu of tribute because you are not special and not worth my time.

Consider yourself a lucky person if you have had the opportunity to session with me in person or online. I individually pick whom I want to session with. If you interest me then use your shot at a session to impress me. I can be impressed with gifts, tribute, amazon gift card, vodka, perfume and by being a well-mannered slave.

Lookout for Wall of Shame Updates Coming Soon!

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Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur offers long distance chastity keyholder service for limited few

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur offers long distance chastity keyholder services to a limited few. She can own your body from a far if you’re one of the lucky ones. Inquire more about Mistress Lydias Paid Keyholder Services by filling out the form below. It may take up to 48 hours to respond due to high volume of clients.

How do I measure myself for chastity?

One of my best times working as a Domme

I was on my visiting tour in Asheville, NC one of my favorite places to go. The architecture is beautiful and being a huge fan of ghost stories this place is ideal for me. There are many ghost tour but I was lucky enough to find one that wasn’t your typical scary story bump in the night stuff. The one we went to was put on by the Asheville Masons. The tour guide, a mason gives a lot of historical information as we walk the streets. The vibe outside reminded me a bit of the movie, “Lost Boys” and I really did feel like vampires were around us.

The fun in Asheville was continuous and the phone rang so I answered. The guy on the phone asked if I would be interested in performing at a bachelor party with about eight guys. I thought about it and quoted an enormous amount of money thinking he would not do it. I was doing Double sessions with another Goddess and I would consider us both to be two very tough girls. Theses two scary ladies also have a trunk full of terrifying items that can be used as weapons. The guy on the phone agreed to the amount and we went back to our condo and started to get ready.

I tried not to think about it too much. I am one crazy and scared driver when in the mountains. During one of my driving adventures of the past when I went to Brevard, I drove up a curvy mountain that was terrifying, to say the least. If a car was driving the other way there is not enough room for both of us on the road so one would have to back up. As I kept driving towards the top of this ridiculous yet scary road I begin to imagine a group of klansman at the top and decided to not go any further. I began driving the car backwards down the winding mountain.

I absolutely love the mountains when I’m not driving in them. After getting ready we finally arrive at the house that the group of guys was renting. Outside it was pitch fucking dark and we drove up to the house after I almost went off the cliff. There were no lights and my nerves got the best of me. My uncontrollable laughter sank in due to nervousness and I had tears coming out of my eyes because I was laughing so hard. I almost pulled a Thelma and Louise with the other Goddess but thank god that I stopped just in time. Finally, the car was parked on the side of the cliff. I was not quite sure how I would get out of here and back on the road but I decided to worry about that later. One emergency at a time.

We step out of the vehicle and several of the guys come out. The groomsman says that his friend things that strippers are coming. I laughed and said that we are far from that. They had big smiles on their face. I was always one to put on a show and enjoyed doing it, thanks again Meisner Approach Claases. We walk in and freshen up in a bathroom and talk about how we are going to do this.

The Double Domme team is now ready, bring us to the groom. The groom is sitting on a chair relaxed and smiling. He looks like he is getting ready for a lap dance. No lap dances today. We rip off his clothes and tell him to get down on the ground. I yell hurry hurry hurry like a drill sergeant in his ear. He is dumbfounded and was not expecting this. All of his friends are laughing at him and he has a big smile now as well.

So after about 3 hours of dressing the groom up to look like a beautiful sissy, we then began mummifying him and did some light flogging and electrical play until we were done. It was exhausting but I must say one of the best times I had yet. I don’t know why every bride to be doesn’t want this for her husband to be. We took photos for them and they loved it and thanked us immensely we left. I conquered my fear and had a great time doing it.

Now here is the shameless plug if anybody is interested in a Domme bachelor party with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur and maybe some of her friends. Email lydiadouleur@gmail.com or text me at 919-234-7128 to check availability.

Warning Jamie Earl Phillips of Lumberton NC is a Timewaster

Do not let this guy waste any of your time. I am posting enough right now but I have lots more. This guy is a huge timewaster to the FemDom community.


Jamie Earl Phillips 43 year old

77 Creekwood Rd

Lumberton, NC 28358


Mobile: 910-736-0215

Landline: 910-608-0026

FixedVOIP: 910-738-2643

Carolyn S. Phillips and David Earl Phillips are related to him

Tomorrow you’ll get to see the photos and videos of him. I’ll also let you know where he works so the workplace can see them as well.