Let’s start off by saying that if you are somehow invited to Mistress Lydia’s new playspace through a cancellation or by other means just realize that everybody is NOT getting the opportunity to serve Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur and her friends. Consider yourself a lucky slave.

Mistress Lydia does not have time for games. Her schedule is extremely complex with not a lot of availability to new clients unless you seem interesting perhaps.  Just because you contact her does not mean that she will session with you. Always, show respect when first speaking to Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur.  She shows respect and consideration when it’s given.

In the future there will be upcoming parties if chosen this will be your chance to shine in front of other traveling or local Mistresses.  If you’re okay with being photographed or “caught on camera”then inform Mistress. If you would like to take part in one of her live streaming events coming up or evaluated for a position on her slave team then inform Mistress Lydia while scheduling your first session.

It would also be nice to possibly bring a giftcard or buy something special off of Mistress Lydia’s Amazon Wishlist.  Having a new playspace means more room for fun equipment and whatever the Mistress wants.  What women doesn’t enjoy a gift?

A rule to remember when participating in a session with Mistress Lydia is to not talk shit about other Dommes. She does not want to hear it or participate in the drama involved.  Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur supports women in the BDSM community and sex workers around the world.  If you think you have what it takes to work with Mistress Lydia then email a short bio along with 3 photos. No drug addicts and no drama. Must be able to think on your feet and be creative.

In two weeks Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur is having her first couples getaway for gay or straight couples who want to know more about BDSM and how to incorporate the lifestyle into their daily lives. Learn special techniques and safety for different fetishes you would like to engage in with your significant other.  All retreats are fun and can be a great learning experience.  To inquire about a weekend retreat with Mistress Lydia send an email to her explaining your availability and your situation.  There is a $100 deposit for all retreats per couple.

If you have any questions or comments feel free to text me at 919-234-7128 or via the contact form below.