Listen as Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Co-Host, I am Citizen Abels Podcast.

You know a Mistresses life can often times be lonely and I like to get out around people and talk. Finding the position open for a co-host was one of the best discoveries this year. When we met we played off of each other so well. The Citizen is so funny and has me in hysterics the whole time I’m there. Watch the two podcasts that were just released. It takes a lot to make me laugh but we are funny as shit together.

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Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur offers long distance chastity keyholder service for limited few

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur offers long distance chastity keyholder services to a limited few. She can own your body from a far if you’re one of the lucky ones. Inquire more about Mistress Lydias Paid Keyholder Services by filling out the form below. It may take up to 48 hours to respond due to high volume of clients.

How do I measure myself for chastity?

One of my best times working as a Domme

I was on my visiting tour in Asheville, NC one of my favorite places to go. The architecture is beautiful and being a huge fan of ghost stories this place is ideal for me. There are many ghost tour but I was lucky enough to find one that wasn’t your typical scary story bump in the night stuff. The one we went to was put on by the Asheville Masons. The tour guide, a mason gives a lot of historical information as we walk the streets. The vibe outside reminded me a bit of the movie, “Lost Boys” and I really did feel like vampires were around us.

The fun in Asheville was continuous and the phone rang so I answered. The guy on the phone asked if I would be interested in performing at a bachelor party with about eight guys. I thought about it and quoted an enormous amount of money thinking he would not do it. I was doing Double sessions with another Goddess and I would consider us both to be two very tough girls. Theses two scary ladies also have a trunk full of terrifying items that can be used as weapons. The guy on the phone agreed to the amount and we went back to our condo and started to get ready.

I tried not to think about it too much. I am one crazy and scared driver when in the mountains. During one of my driving adventures of the past when I went to Brevard, I drove up a curvy mountain that was terrifying, to say the least. If a car was driving the other way there is not enough room for both of us on the road so one would have to back up. As I kept driving towards the top of this ridiculous yet scary road I begin to imagine a group of klansman at the top and decided to not go any further. I began driving the car backwards down the winding mountain.

I absolutely love the mountains when I’m not driving in them. After getting ready we finally arrive at the house that the group of guys was renting. Outside it was pitch fucking dark and we drove up to the house after I almost went off the cliff. There were no lights and my nerves got the best of me. My uncontrollable laughter sank in due to nervousness and I had tears coming out of my eyes because I was laughing so hard. I almost pulled a Thelma and Louise with the other Goddess but thank god that I stopped just in time. Finally, the car was parked on the side of the cliff. I was not quite sure how I would get out of here and back on the road but I decided to worry about that later. One emergency at a time.

We step out of the vehicle and several of the guys come out. The groomsman says that his friend things that strippers are coming. I laughed and said that we are far from that. They had big smiles on their face. I was always one to put on a show and enjoyed doing it, thanks again Meisner Approach Claases. We walk in and freshen up in a bathroom and talk about how we are going to do this.

The Double Domme team is now ready, bring us to the groom. The groom is sitting on a chair relaxed and smiling. He looks like he is getting ready for a lap dance. No lap dances today. We rip off his clothes and tell him to get down on the ground. I yell hurry hurry hurry like a drill sergeant in his ear. He is dumbfounded and was not expecting this. All of his friends are laughing at him and he has a big smile now as well.

So after about 3 hours of dressing the groom up to look like a beautiful sissy, we then began mummifying him and did some light flogging and electrical play until we were done. It was exhausting but I must say one of the best times I had yet. I don’t know why every bride to be doesn’t want this for her husband to be. We took photos for them and they loved it and thanked us immensely we left. I conquered my fear and had a great time doing it.

Now here is the shameless plug if anybody is interested in a Domme bachelor party with Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur and maybe some of her friends. Email or text me at 919-234-7128 to check availability.

It’s Sadistic Sissy Sunday with Mistress Lydia D’Ouler

It seems as if the daytime is my favorite part of Sunday!



#Sexy is the new quiet





I could go on forever. Good luck if you get a day appointment today. Text 919-234-7128 to begin scheduling process. Newbies be prepared to pay a $50 deposit via PayPal at this link

The remainder can be paid upon arrival. My sessions begin with a #tribute of $200 and up.

I only accept sessions I enjoy. Just cause you have money and want one means shit to me. Let’s play losers! #ChapelHill # Raleigh #Cary #Durham CBT #humiliation #ballbusting


Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur

Fetish Fun All Saturday Night! Who is coming?

 As many of you know I’m having a Golden Shower Party and Slave Competition this Saturday. Slaves will compete for a chance to be crowned Queen/King of the Golden Showers.

The winner will receive a super secret grand prize worth thousands. Be sure to bring eye gear and a change of clothes if necessary. Inform me of any health concerns.

Since we are lucky enough to have such a small intimate party we have decided to all attend the Push Fetish Event in Durham after the party. Please be sure to check their pricing and guidelines for attire. You can change after our party and shower if competing.

I will not tolerate any rude behavior. You will he asked to leave immediately with no refund. This will be a fun, safe atmosphere to party. To purchase tickets to my event click link below.

Here are the details to the Push Fetish Event!

Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur Writes for Dominate Me Magazine

Dominate Me Magazine #1

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Dominate Me Magazine #1

Writing has always been a passion for me even before becoming a Pro-Dom. As a young girl it was the cheapest form of therapy. Writing has always been a best friend of mine that doesn’t speak, which is the best kind. I’m not saying all friends should just shut up and listen but the majority of them SHOULD! Dominate Me Magazine is beautiful in the way it captures metal music and the BDSM/Fetish Scene.

Music for me is an essential extension of my creative capabilities and can be used to create the atmosphere you want to create during a session. An example is playing folk music for a mindfuck session unless the sub had some kind of fear to folk music. Anything is possible! The music I play in the background while working creates what I want the environment to be as a Professional Dominatrix.

It’s an honor to be a part of such an amazingly unique and beautiful magazine. You can purchase your copy of Dominate Me today digital download or via print or you can have both. If you have suggestions on future articles or content then contact me using the form below. Contact Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur via the form below.

Warning Jamie Earl Phillips of Lumberton NC is a Timewaster

Do not let this guy waste any of your time. I am posting enough right now but I have lots more. This guy is a huge timewaster to the FemDom community.


Jamie Earl Phillips 43 year old

77 Creekwood Rd

Lumberton, NC 28358


Mobile: 910-736-0215

Landline: 910-608-0026

FixedVOIP: 910-738-2643

Carolyn S. Phillips and David Earl Phillips are related to him

Tomorrow you’ll get to see the photos and videos of him. I’ll also let you know where he works so the work place can see them as well.